Are we strong? -A reality Check
Have you ever wondered why we seek others opinions? It’s either that we are afraid to do the right thing. Or else we know we are wrong and want someone else to say this.
So many platforms have come up to help youngsters to cope up with their worries. I just came across a girl’s problem which reads “my boyfriend wants to breakup with me because he hates my best friend. So he has given me an ultimatum to choose between both of them. My friend isn’t that good a girl. But even my boyfriend isn’t into commitment. Suggest me a solution.”…..
I am at a loss of words. I mean what the hell is wrong with youngsters these days. Any sane person would know that he/she should dump both of them or probably give them a ninja kick. I am sure that girl is educated. She can handle a social account so she must have average smartness. The problem she is facing isn’t something hard to crack. But she took it to social platform and decided us all to decide it for herself.
The problem to any solution we are facing can only be sorted by us.
I am not against all these social platforms. But I am wondering that how can youngsters lack so much of confidence. Let me tell, all of them know what’s right and wrong. But no one seems to want to take the decisions themselves. And that is where the problem lies.
Our generation prides itself in being so tech savvy, being independent, brave, in breaking stereotypes. But in all this we have seems to have lost the courage to take decisions and our common sense. We don’t seem to be able to cope with even trivial issues.
If I answer that question in my sassy tone at the social platform I would be hailed as a cyber bully and what not. But to think that people of my age or perhaps younger than me are in such a position angers me and disheartens at the same time.
If the same question would be posed to our parents they would probably mock at us to even call this a problem. We are more intelligent than our previous generation. Or so they think. But this kind of absurd situations makes me question my generations IQ and EQ (sad).
All of us earn degrees but we are not even half as strong as our parents. And I don’t even want to compare the common sense of our generation with that of pour parents.
I am in a dilemma to answer that question. But then again it won’t help the cause. Other dumbheads would join the cause to hold the flag against me or I would get a mail from the admin to be in my limits.
So if you are reading this, please do give this a thought and try to preach such a person.
No one is perfect but we need to help ourselves in such situations.
